Emotional instability, the pattern is too small

There is such a story in "Zhuangzi·Mountainwood".

A person crosses the river by boat, and there is a ship in front to hit it. This person screams and swears that the other person does not have long eyes.

When the ship collided, it was found that there was no one on the opposite side of the ship. It was an empty ship. The anger was just gone, and it disappeared without a trace.

It’s not the collision of the ship itself, but the opposite person.

One thing has caused harm to you. You are not angry, you don't get angry, it doesn't depend on the thing itself, but the other person.

There are such people in the world, this person actually ignores me! This person actually wants to hurt me? No, I am not welcome to him.

The mood also exploded here.

The problem is that the forest is big, and there are birds.

We can meet all kinds of wonders in this life. If you have to keep up with them, then you are not finished.

Zhuangzi said: "Do not send right and wrong, and the world."

Don't argue about right and wrong. If you are alive, you will inevitably have people and things you can't understand. Relax your heart and smile.

The more people and things a person can't understand, the smaller the pattern of this person.

Really powerful people treat those who are bad and treat them as "empty ships."

Others are unintentional, things are unintentional, not contemplating revenge.

In this way, people can quickly adjust themselves and constantly enlarge their own patterns.

Emotional instability, it is too heavy to see yourself

Zhuangzi also said: "People can vain themselves to travel around the world.

If a person does not take himself seriously, then no one can make him angry and make him angry.

A person's self-esteem is too strong, self-awareness is too strong, others are slightly offended, and he immediately bounces back.

And everyone has a lifestyle for everyone, try to put down "I", think about it from the opposite side, understand and go loose.

The two ships collided. Your first sentence is not a swearing, but a question: Are you okay?

Then the feeling you give each other is an empty ship. In this case, what disputes will there be?

Exploiting yourself, imagining oneself, forgetting oneself, forgetting selfish desires and prejudice, so that you can not harm things or harm things, and harm people without harming others.

Letting go of my duties, naturally I can do everything, and everything can be seen.

Bad mood, too much you want

Too much is desired, there are more intersections with the world, and there are more disputes.

Human desire is endless. If we build happiness in the satisfaction of desire, then once the desire cannot be satisfied, happiness will disappear.

Therefore, the ancient sages also told us that too much desire is the source of all suffering.

When Zhuangzi is about to die, the disciple wants to bury him. He said:

"On the bird for food, the next is for the ants to eat, to win the other, how is it?"

When everyone is rushing, wealth, fame and fortune want everything, Zhuangzi is bleak for life and death.

Life is getting simpler and easier, getting lighter and lighter. Many people compete for fame and fortune.

What is the use of things that do not bring death or not?

Zhuangzi said: "Is there any fun in the world?"

There is fun in the world, but it is not the joy of fame and fortune, the joy of desire.

“There is no fun, no reputation.”

True happiness is unity with nature. It is with heaven and earth. One, this happy material position cannot be given, but depends on one's wisdom and realm.